by: Suzie Peterson
May 9, 2025
“We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.”
— Epictetus
We live in an era of instant gratification and even faster opinions. Social media encourages speed over reflection, and outrage over understanding. The moment anything happens—whether public, personal, or somewhere in between—the pressure to comment, condemn, or take sides kicks in.
The hard truth: reacting quickly isn’t the same as responding wisely.
Too often, people jump into the middle of situations they don’t fully understand. They post based on half-truths, vague screenshots, or the loudest voice in the room. Facts get buried beneath assumptions. Context is ignored. And the cycle of online drama spins out of control before the full story even has a chance to unfold.
Here’s the thing: not everything needs your immediate opinion. And more importantly, not every situation is what it first appears to be. Sometimes, the most responsible, respectful thing you can do is wait.
It’s okay to say, “I don’t know enough about this yet.” It’s okay to withhold judgment until the dust settles and more information becomes available. In fact, doing so shows maturity and emotional intelligence. Jumping in with a hot take might earn a few likes, but if you’re wrong—or worse, if you’re part of the problem—you’re the one left backpedaling while others quietly take note.
“Never miss a good chance to shut up.”
— Will Rogers
That may sound harsh, but it’s a reminder that restraint is powerful. Silence, when intentional, is not weakness. It’s often a sign of wisdom.
Next time you’re tempted to post a passionate reaction in real time, ask yourself a few questions:
- Do I have all the facts?
- Is this my place to speak?
- Am I adding clarity—or just more noise?
We don’t need more reactive drama. We need a more thoughtful presence. So breathe. Wait. Reflect. Let the truth rise before you rush to speak.
Because sometimes, a moment of patience can save you from a very public regret.
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